Sometimes I find myself speechless and don't know ho to express myself. Sometime I even find myself so happy that I would feel like scream and jump in the air :)
Have you ever felt that feeling? Its really a great feeling I can tell you!
Everyday I meet people who may never had the opportunity to shine with their smiles or to feel the joy and love because they may haven't had anyone who could share with them happiness, love and gratitude. Maybe they never found someone in their lives who could inspire them and motivate them by saying something nice to them or compliment them on their talents or their nice personality. These people are around us everyday and we don't even knowing! Although we maybe seeing, we won't really be looking.
I am proudly to say that these people are those who makes me realize how much I have to give to them. They make me realize how I should help them by sharing something with them and help them by showing them how beautiful they are, outside and inside. Don't you would want that one day or another? To have someone who could appreciate the real you and dedicate time for you? Everybody would want that for sure.
People who aren't motivated or maybe passing through rough moments aren't in any way some kind of different from us .. they are just like me and just like you! Human Beings! The difference between would be that this person may haven't found what really makes her happy or if I may say haven't realize yet how to be happy!
These are the people who I live for! I live for all those people who are in need of inspiration, gratitude, happiness .. I want to live to share all these things with others. Even with those who found all these things in their lives .. I would still want to share more with them so I'll make them realize what they have been missing and will motivate them to keep doing what they're doing.
I can say that I've tasted every bit of sadness, loneliness, and worthless moments in life. I've tasted them and actually lived for a long long time with them. They made my life miserable, and this is not what I want for others. I don't want others to feel what I've felt when I lived that hell as an outcast. I want to make them feel worthwhile, I want to make them feel happy, I want to make them feel welcomed, I want to make them feel loved . This is what I live for!
Those who may have been part in my life or had the chance to sneak into my life will carry back with them joy, love and all the respect they deserve!
27 May, 2011
21 May, 2011
Appreciate
Each time I wake up in the morning before I even go to the bathroom I look in my room's mirror and look at that person in the mirror and admire her :) I will also say THANK YOU. Thank you for starting a new day, thank you for being able to walk again, for being able to breathe, for being able to see, to listen, to talk and to find my loved ones are still surrounding me.
I will also thank the universe for sending to me such good positive energy and for surrounding me with things I love.
How many times have you ever said thank you to someone or to God for giving you another day to live for? If you haven't done it yet well you better start doing it because you are not manifesting gratitude for what you are surrounded with. If you are not grateful for what you have, you can never appreciate it.
Appreciate life, appreciate friends and family, appreciate your pet and your neighbors, even though they might be a pain in the ass, but they will be your pain as long as you leave them to be .. if you appreciate their attitude and show them a positive energy they will act according to what you appreciate about them. Find the best in the worse and appreciate. This works in any form, everywhere and with everyone!
Next time you wake up in the morning, try it and focus only on how to be grateful and how to emit positive energy.. and see what you get back ;)
I will also thank the universe for sending to me such good positive energy and for surrounding me with things I love.
How many times have you ever said thank you to someone or to God for giving you another day to live for? If you haven't done it yet well you better start doing it because you are not manifesting gratitude for what you are surrounded with. If you are not grateful for what you have, you can never appreciate it.
Appreciate life, appreciate friends and family, appreciate your pet and your neighbors, even though they might be a pain in the ass, but they will be your pain as long as you leave them to be .. if you appreciate their attitude and show them a positive energy they will act according to what you appreciate about them. Find the best in the worse and appreciate. This works in any form, everywhere and with everyone!
Next time you wake up in the morning, try it and focus only on how to be grateful and how to emit positive energy.. and see what you get back ;)
17 May, 2011
Personal Experience
My life before 9 months ago was extremely negative, I always thought about the bad things which were happening to me. I used to get low grades at school, fighting and troubles with my friends and family and also I've always hated myself for all of this. I found myself in the extremity of attempting a suicide because I hated everything and everyone around me and of course .. hated my life. I always let bad things take over and let them carry me away and I used to pity myself so everyone else will feel sorry for me, which that made feel much more worse. The night I tried to attempt the suicide by hanging myself something went wrong and didn't happen. It was the worst scene I've ever seen. Seeing myself in that miserable state!
Without knowing I was attracting more bad things into my life because I was the only person who was concentrating on those bad things.
Until - I discovered The Secret. June 2010 I was chosen for a journalism scholarship for a month in Germany. While I was there the worst thing happened, where I lost some important work which had to be done in few days before the deadlines. I said to myself that it was all my fault and I hated myself for what happened. I remember not talking to anyone because of the shame and because I felt like I'm the only looser! That night I had a conversation on the phone with a person from Malta who's my tutor at school and we chatted for hours and she told me about The Secret and the Law of Attraction. Few weeks after that my relationship had come to an end and then I felt like I wanted to die because 1 person was out of my life. Immediately I started to search more about the secret and watched the DVD documentary and I was completely blown away by all the information and all the teachings!
Suddenly I felt something deep inside me saying to me that it was the time to change my life and knowing that I had the power in my hands to change it the way I wanted made it more interesting and got me hooked. From that moment I decided that I want to change my life and also help others too to change theirs. I read the book The Secret and recently I read the Power.
Today I'm attracting in my life people with positive frequencies, I'm attracting great grades and also great positive experiences with friends. Things changed so magically that when I wake up in the morning each day I thank God for waking me up for another bright day and say "I love my life". I never said that before but today I cannot stop saying it especially when I meet new people who are helping me to change more my life to a magical positive life.
I cannot express myself how grateful I am to everything which surround me and to all the people who are part of my life. Today I found myself helping others and serve as their motivator when I share my experience with them and show them that the The Power of The Law of Attraction is working all the time and it works according to what we ask for. I also managed to help these people to also change their perspective of life and got them to know about The Secret and The Power.
Without knowing I was attracting more bad things into my life because I was the only person who was concentrating on those bad things.
Until - I discovered The Secret. June 2010 I was chosen for a journalism scholarship for a month in Germany. While I was there the worst thing happened, where I lost some important work which had to be done in few days before the deadlines. I said to myself that it was all my fault and I hated myself for what happened. I remember not talking to anyone because of the shame and because I felt like I'm the only looser! That night I had a conversation on the phone with a person from Malta who's my tutor at school and we chatted for hours and she told me about The Secret and the Law of Attraction. Few weeks after that my relationship had come to an end and then I felt like I wanted to die because 1 person was out of my life. Immediately I started to search more about the secret and watched the DVD documentary and I was completely blown away by all the information and all the teachings!
Suddenly I felt something deep inside me saying to me that it was the time to change my life and knowing that I had the power in my hands to change it the way I wanted made it more interesting and got me hooked. From that moment I decided that I want to change my life and also help others too to change theirs. I read the book The Secret and recently I read the Power.
Today I'm attracting in my life people with positive frequencies, I'm attracting great grades and also great positive experiences with friends. Things changed so magically that when I wake up in the morning each day I thank God for waking me up for another bright day and say "I love my life". I never said that before but today I cannot stop saying it especially when I meet new people who are helping me to change more my life to a magical positive life.
I cannot express myself how grateful I am to everything which surround me and to all the people who are part of my life. Today I found myself helping others and serve as their motivator when I share my experience with them and show them that the The Power of The Law of Attraction is working all the time and it works according to what we ask for. I also managed to help these people to also change their perspective of life and got them to know about The Secret and The Power.
Love
Love. What is love?
There are many versions of what love is .. But there's only one which fits perfect!
Love is complicated to understand, easy to build and never to forget! Those are the three pedestals which love stands on. Love is present when something or someone special is present! It could be the least simple object to the most special person. Love can take it's form into different forms such as hate, anger and jealousy.. when these signs are present there must be love behind all of those! Loves comes into your life when the least expected but it will leave its imprint depending on how you are treating it. Love should never be stored up inside, otherwise it will make you sick! However you must never give love to anyone who you bump into as love is the most precious feeling one can ever share and it's not a subject of sharing like sharing chocolates. It really must be something special!
Many have the idea that to love someone takes ages or takes complication .. actually when it is true love it's as easy as ABC! ..but it's hard as hell to forget or to let go! .. there are some complications as well because love can make you do things which you never even dreamt of and love may also get you blind. In that particular moment of blindness is the most important moment where you must have your eyes wide open to see clearly what you're doing! Love can also be hurtful if you are sharing it uncontrollably or with the wrong person. Unfortunately love has got it's own ways how to penetrate into your heart .. and sometime its ways are not the appropriate ways for us.. and that's where we get hurt because we might have been blind or we must have acted before we even thought.
It's such a special feeling and the most powerful energy in the universe .. So I's day use it wisely and control it within limits .. When the moment is right it will show you by itself when to act :) Don't miss any special moment in life because you'll never know when it will come back again!
Lots of love ..
There are many versions of what love is .. But there's only one which fits perfect!
Love is complicated to understand, easy to build and never to forget! Those are the three pedestals which love stands on. Love is present when something or someone special is present! It could be the least simple object to the most special person. Love can take it's form into different forms such as hate, anger and jealousy.. when these signs are present there must be love behind all of those! Loves comes into your life when the least expected but it will leave its imprint depending on how you are treating it. Love should never be stored up inside, otherwise it will make you sick! However you must never give love to anyone who you bump into as love is the most precious feeling one can ever share and it's not a subject of sharing like sharing chocolates. It really must be something special!
Many have the idea that to love someone takes ages or takes complication .. actually when it is true love it's as easy as ABC! ..but it's hard as hell to forget or to let go! .. there are some complications as well because love can make you do things which you never even dreamt of and love may also get you blind. In that particular moment of blindness is the most important moment where you must have your eyes wide open to see clearly what you're doing! Love can also be hurtful if you are sharing it uncontrollably or with the wrong person. Unfortunately love has got it's own ways how to penetrate into your heart .. and sometime its ways are not the appropriate ways for us.. and that's where we get hurt because we might have been blind or we must have acted before we even thought.
It's such a special feeling and the most powerful energy in the universe .. So I's day use it wisely and control it within limits .. When the moment is right it will show you by itself when to act :) Don't miss any special moment in life because you'll never know when it will come back again!
Lots of love ..
15 May, 2011
A Gift
What is a gift? .. Something which you received from someone else on your birthday? Something which you received from someone because you've always wanted it, and finally you got it? OR Something you GAVE to someone? ..
How many times you've concentrated on what you want on your birthday or on your graduation? or maybe because you passed the exams so you pretend something from you parents?
If you sit down and think deeply, you'll realize that you are only concentrating on what you want instead of what you are going to give! And this happens in the everyday life activities. We always tend to think for ourselves. It shouldn't work like this because believe it or not, you will receive only when you give!. Sometimes you may give something which is not a material or an object but it may be something emotional. That's what I call a GIFT!
No materials and no objects can make a person happy and positive .. yes you may be filled with joy if you receive a precious gift BUT that won't last for a long time!!
The greatest gift of all is when someone respects you and appreciates you as you are and understands every bit of you especially when you may find yourself through rough moment. Unfortunately you don't find these persons who has got this special gift everyday, but what if I tell you that you have the power in your hand s to be one of them yourself?. You have the power to change your life and someone else's life just by GIVING to others! When you give ultimately your heart will be filled not just with joy but with strength, prosperity and most important positiveness which these no one can take away from you.
The secret of all this is being positive in your life and to others. When you transmit positive energy to others eventually that person will transmit that same energy back to you .. and this is a never ending cycle which travels in each and every one of you.
So, be that person who can complete this cycle of positivity and make a change to others life so your life will change accordingly! :)
Keep Well and stay Positive!
How many times you've concentrated on what you want on your birthday or on your graduation? or maybe because you passed the exams so you pretend something from you parents?
If you sit down and think deeply, you'll realize that you are only concentrating on what you want instead of what you are going to give! And this happens in the everyday life activities. We always tend to think for ourselves. It shouldn't work like this because believe it or not, you will receive only when you give!. Sometimes you may give something which is not a material or an object but it may be something emotional. That's what I call a GIFT!
No materials and no objects can make a person happy and positive .. yes you may be filled with joy if you receive a precious gift BUT that won't last for a long time!!
The greatest gift of all is when someone respects you and appreciates you as you are and understands every bit of you especially when you may find yourself through rough moment. Unfortunately you don't find these persons who has got this special gift everyday, but what if I tell you that you have the power in your hand s to be one of them yourself?. You have the power to change your life and someone else's life just by GIVING to others! When you give ultimately your heart will be filled not just with joy but with strength, prosperity and most important positiveness which these no one can take away from you.
The secret of all this is being positive in your life and to others. When you transmit positive energy to others eventually that person will transmit that same energy back to you .. and this is a never ending cycle which travels in each and every one of you.
So, be that person who can complete this cycle of positivity and make a change to others life so your life will change accordingly! :)
Keep Well and stay Positive!
10 May, 2011
Talent
Have you looked in that mirror in your room this morning and wondered how beautiful you are? NO? you should just go right away and admire yourself and admire who you are!
Everyday I meet people who have problems accepting who they are, accepting themselves and their personalities, and most important they might won't accept their talents which may be hidden!. To accept who your are is to respect yourself enough and decide to do something out of your life or out of your discovered talents.
I believe and I can prove this that deep down each and everyone of us has got a talent, somehow it's there but you might never knew about it because you haven't found the right moment or opportunity to let it shine! When you do find it though, don't let it go as if it was nothing of importance! embrace it with your heart and look in the mirror and speak with yourself and say to yourself that you have got what it takes to be just like any other talented person. The greatest talent of all is not just the singing or the dancing, or the music or the painting.. but the real talent is that you have the ability to accept who you really are! and no it's not true when someone says to you you are capable of nothing or you are not good at this. You tend to believe those things because you just heard that one person who happens to be in the same situation as yours and would like to find comfort in you by putting you in his same situation of not believing in yourself!
No matter what everyone tells you to do or what to say because what's inside you is stronger then any other word or action. So if you believe that you can do it and believe you've got what it takes to show your talent , then do so because you are just one step away from being the motivator to others!
Everyday I meet people who have problems accepting who they are, accepting themselves and their personalities, and most important they might won't accept their talents which may be hidden!. To accept who your are is to respect yourself enough and decide to do something out of your life or out of your discovered talents.
I believe and I can prove this that deep down each and everyone of us has got a talent, somehow it's there but you might never knew about it because you haven't found the right moment or opportunity to let it shine! When you do find it though, don't let it go as if it was nothing of importance! embrace it with your heart and look in the mirror and speak with yourself and say to yourself that you have got what it takes to be just like any other talented person. The greatest talent of all is not just the singing or the dancing, or the music or the painting.. but the real talent is that you have the ability to accept who you really are! and no it's not true when someone says to you you are capable of nothing or you are not good at this. You tend to believe those things because you just heard that one person who happens to be in the same situation as yours and would like to find comfort in you by putting you in his same situation of not believing in yourself!
No matter what everyone tells you to do or what to say because what's inside you is stronger then any other word or action. So if you believe that you can do it and believe you've got what it takes to show your talent , then do so because you are just one step away from being the motivator to others!
Strength
How many times you've wasted time from your precious life worrying about those people who may have broke your heart or put you down? .. yes, you've just wasted time!
"Broke my heart" is a very strong phrase to use .. but if you say it, you must really mean it. I tell you that "broke my heart" isn't the right thing to say to describe the action done .. yes it may hurt a lot and yes it may feels like it's broken .. but the only thing which the heart will be doing when it start to pains you, is that it will be forming itself in better harder case to prevent from being broken. This means your heart is only getting stronger, stronger and stronger.
To be strong is not an easy way trust me, but to be strong means, you have suffered pain and you don't want to suffer from it again .. so you know all the steps how to prevent from being hurt again. That's what being strong means! It does need some time yes, but NEVER impossible. When you hit rock bottom the only way is up.. so put up your sleeves up and if you are down there start working your way up. The only way up is to get rid of all those obstacles in the way, which this can be easily done by focusing on what you are going to do when you find your way already on top. Imagine yourself as if you are already on top. What are you going to do? what will you say to those people who tried to help you?. Don't think about those who put you down there .. because remember, when you were finding your way up you left them behind you, so practically if you made it through without them, you will sure conquer the world without them.
Always remember to keep focusing on the prize of the achievement instead on concentrating how long the journey takes .. like this you will shorten the road and eventually will start to think what will you do next instead of what I've done !
Strength is only the action nourished by your thoughts!
"Broke my heart" is a very strong phrase to use .. but if you say it, you must really mean it. I tell you that "broke my heart" isn't the right thing to say to describe the action done .. yes it may hurt a lot and yes it may feels like it's broken .. but the only thing which the heart will be doing when it start to pains you, is that it will be forming itself in better harder case to prevent from being broken. This means your heart is only getting stronger, stronger and stronger.
To be strong is not an easy way trust me, but to be strong means, you have suffered pain and you don't want to suffer from it again .. so you know all the steps how to prevent from being hurt again. That's what being strong means! It does need some time yes, but NEVER impossible. When you hit rock bottom the only way is up.. so put up your sleeves up and if you are down there start working your way up. The only way up is to get rid of all those obstacles in the way, which this can be easily done by focusing on what you are going to do when you find your way already on top. Imagine yourself as if you are already on top. What are you going to do? what will you say to those people who tried to help you?. Don't think about those who put you down there .. because remember, when you were finding your way up you left them behind you, so practically if you made it through without them, you will sure conquer the world without them.
Always remember to keep focusing on the prize of the achievement instead on concentrating how long the journey takes .. like this you will shorten the road and eventually will start to think what will you do next instead of what I've done !
Strength is only the action nourished by your thoughts!
09 May, 2011
Special day ..
In these past few days I have been quite busy, and now I feel the urgent need to write my thoughts to you.
Although I live a busy life and sometimes tight scheduled as well, it doesn't really mean that my life is not on the right track and it doesn't mean that I don't have an interesting life . In fact with all the ups and downs and with all my busy days, I can say NEVER say that I hate my life. Actually I do love my life and for that I know that life will love me back by sending me special people in my life such as new friends.
Today was a very special day :) with the courtesy to some family related members today I accomplished a mission which is somewhat very important as it's part of a dissertation for my school project. Today was also a special day because I met a new friend :) and somehow according to her friend, who happened to be my close family related friend, we share the same characteristics and values. I was so much honored and pleased to meet Maria.
I believe that people come in our lives for a reason, what the reason will be we might never know.. but we know it is there and as long as we keep our special friends close to our hearts the reason will show by itself eventually .. as if it was a self discovering journey!
So, I say whenever a new person has been encounterd with your life , treasure him/her as if it was the last time you'll both meet!
I'd like to end my today's thought by showing my appreciation and my deep gratitude to today's contributors who are also important role models to my journey of life .
Courtesy to : Claire Aquilina
Mary Aquilina
Krista Aquilina
Janica Aquilina
MariaAzzopardi
A great appreciation also goes to a very special friend of mine who also has been an inspiration for my work and writing.
Courtesy to : Anabel Micallef
Although I live a busy life and sometimes tight scheduled as well, it doesn't really mean that my life is not on the right track and it doesn't mean that I don't have an interesting life . In fact with all the ups and downs and with all my busy days, I can say NEVER say that I hate my life. Actually I do love my life and for that I know that life will love me back by sending me special people in my life such as new friends.
Today was a very special day :) with the courtesy to some family related members today I accomplished a mission which is somewhat very important as it's part of a dissertation for my school project. Today was also a special day because I met a new friend :) and somehow according to her friend, who happened to be my close family related friend, we share the same characteristics and values. I was so much honored and pleased to meet Maria.
I believe that people come in our lives for a reason, what the reason will be we might never know.. but we know it is there and as long as we keep our special friends close to our hearts the reason will show by itself eventually .. as if it was a self discovering journey!
So, I say whenever a new person has been encounterd with your life , treasure him/her as if it was the last time you'll both meet!
I'd like to end my today's thought by showing my appreciation and my deep gratitude to today's contributors who are also important role models to my journey of life .
Courtesy to : Claire Aquilina
Mary Aquilina
Krista Aquilina
Janica Aquilina
MariaAzzopardi
A great appreciation also goes to a very special friend of mine who also has been an inspiration for my work and writing.
Courtesy to : Anabel Micallef
14 April, 2011
The Secret
9 months ago I discovered The Secret!
I have been given the opportunity to search about The Secret, understand The Secret and finally use The Secret. July 2010 something while I was abroad studying journalism, happened which made me forget every bit of good in me and focus on the bad and unsuccessful things which I've made. I started to see myself as a looser. I hated myself and hated my life. I saw the whole world crushing down on me. I didn't want to listen to everybody and wanted to lock myself up in sadness. But was this going to help?
During the time I had spent on my studies I had contact with particular persons who were there everyday for me to listen what I wanted to say and to encourage me every single day. One of which was in Malta while I was abroad, we had contact almost everyday. When in the last few days I was in terrible state of moral and confidence, this person enlighted me by telling me about The Secret.
When I had moments alone and time to think I went to look up about what was this all about. When I started to read about it I was completely blown away by how this was like speaking directly to me. I started to search on web sites and books, and everything seemed like getting into place.
When I went back to Malta the first thing I did was went to buy the book The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. When I started to read the book, the moment I opened the first page I felt something inside me which made me feel like I wanted to change my life into positive. I kept reading every second I had, everyday, all the time and everywhere I went. The more I read the more I was getting to know what was The Secret and how to use it. The book is written in a format which was literally speaking directly to me . I couldn't stop reading and wanting to know more about The Secret.
The Secret is the Law of Attraction. This is all you need to know how to use if you really want to change your life into positive. The Law of Attraction gave me the chance to re think about all those bad things which I was focusing on and was ignoring all the positive things around me. After understanding The Secret I finally understood how I could design my own life in the way I want it to be. If I wanted to be happy I could do so very easily by focusing on those things which makes me happy and things which I love to do. If I had a bad mood I learnt how to switch my mood immediately by thinking of something which I've accomplished lately or do something which I love.
The more I got to know about The Secret, the more I saw my life changing in front of my eyes with each passing day. Within 5 months I can say that my life was completely changed and started to live a happy positive life!
I deeply owe all this to that particular person, who today she fits into my role model, who helped me throughout everyday and during the whole process and also those special friends around me. I was lucky enough to have this opportunity of learning how to really attract things I like and things I want, so finally I could attract them into my life, and I can really prove that you are what you think and you attract only what you think about!
Today I am learning about The Power of The Secret. I behold The Power to have an amazing life as I am meant to have. Everyone does hold this power, even you. All you need is to search it.
Courtesy to : Eleonora Rose Abela
Edmea Abela
Claudia Cachia
I have been given the opportunity to search about The Secret, understand The Secret and finally use The Secret. July 2010 something while I was abroad studying journalism, happened which made me forget every bit of good in me and focus on the bad and unsuccessful things which I've made. I started to see myself as a looser. I hated myself and hated my life. I saw the whole world crushing down on me. I didn't want to listen to everybody and wanted to lock myself up in sadness. But was this going to help?
During the time I had spent on my studies I had contact with particular persons who were there everyday for me to listen what I wanted to say and to encourage me every single day. One of which was in Malta while I was abroad, we had contact almost everyday. When in the last few days I was in terrible state of moral and confidence, this person enlighted me by telling me about The Secret.
When I had moments alone and time to think I went to look up about what was this all about. When I started to read about it I was completely blown away by how this was like speaking directly to me. I started to search on web sites and books, and everything seemed like getting into place.
When I went back to Malta the first thing I did was went to buy the book The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. When I started to read the book, the moment I opened the first page I felt something inside me which made me feel like I wanted to change my life into positive. I kept reading every second I had, everyday, all the time and everywhere I went. The more I read the more I was getting to know what was The Secret and how to use it. The book is written in a format which was literally speaking directly to me . I couldn't stop reading and wanting to know more about The Secret.
The Secret is the Law of Attraction. This is all you need to know how to use if you really want to change your life into positive. The Law of Attraction gave me the chance to re think about all those bad things which I was focusing on and was ignoring all the positive things around me. After understanding The Secret I finally understood how I could design my own life in the way I want it to be. If I wanted to be happy I could do so very easily by focusing on those things which makes me happy and things which I love to do. If I had a bad mood I learnt how to switch my mood immediately by thinking of something which I've accomplished lately or do something which I love.
The more I got to know about The Secret, the more I saw my life changing in front of my eyes with each passing day. Within 5 months I can say that my life was completely changed and started to live a happy positive life!
I deeply owe all this to that particular person, who today she fits into my role model, who helped me throughout everyday and during the whole process and also those special friends around me. I was lucky enough to have this opportunity of learning how to really attract things I like and things I want, so finally I could attract them into my life, and I can really prove that you are what you think and you attract only what you think about!
Today I am learning about The Power of The Secret. I behold The Power to have an amazing life as I am meant to have. Everyone does hold this power, even you. All you need is to search it.
Courtesy to : Eleonora Rose Abela
Edmea Abela
Claudia Cachia
10 April, 2011
Confidence
Since we were young everyone told us that we must be confident with ourselves and we must believe in ourselves .. but how many times did you really do that? are you confident with yourself?
To be confident it's not as easy as it may seem because deep down we always tend to find something in ourselves like a defect or something wrong with our body or character which makes you not feel confident and ultimately not liking the way you are! and here where the trouble starts!
Since the very first day at school at our early ages I must say that we start to find out whats good and what's bad in ourselves according to what the other kids tell you. The funny thing about confidence is not about how you really look at yourself, but how others look at you and what they comment about you! so you end up by believing what they are saying whether it's good or bad. The most probability is that you believe in those bad things which are being told to us.
This mostly happen with the people who we are close to like the family members and maybe friends at school. If your friends at school pick up on you because you're brave and smart you will automatically start hating yourself for being smart and obviously they will might tell you that you are good because you cheat or maybe because you get help from people at home, and this will start to grow anger within you and because of the fact that you might start being introvert you will loose confidence in yourself!
This was a basic example but I am sure that there are worst things happening because of not having confidence in yourself and believe in it!
The key to be start being confident is to actually ignore everything which makes you feel bad and start focusing on the beautiful things in you. Your smile, your eyes, your nice hair, your hands, your skin, your organs, your voice etc etc... these are all things which you really must be appreciating that you have and these are the things which makes the real you, the beautiful you. It's not your friends or who ever has bullied you gave you those things, it's not who ever called you stupid or ugly or fat! Those are the things which makes you feel bad because you are afraid of having them .. so why are you wasting time focusing on what you don't have and forget what you have!? no one can ever make a replica of the real beautiful you , so if you are to destroy it you will be gone forever and can't bring it back. So you better look very very closely in that mirror in your room and notice every single part which makes the real you, which makes your eyes smile, which makes your smile shine and which makes your heart warm! these are what makes the real YOU! so you must love YOU!
Remember, what's inside you is stronger then any other comment or a lie!
To be confident it's not as easy as it may seem because deep down we always tend to find something in ourselves like a defect or something wrong with our body or character which makes you not feel confident and ultimately not liking the way you are! and here where the trouble starts!
Since the very first day at school at our early ages I must say that we start to find out whats good and what's bad in ourselves according to what the other kids tell you. The funny thing about confidence is not about how you really look at yourself, but how others look at you and what they comment about you! so you end up by believing what they are saying whether it's good or bad. The most probability is that you believe in those bad things which are being told to us.
This mostly happen with the people who we are close to like the family members and maybe friends at school. If your friends at school pick up on you because you're brave and smart you will automatically start hating yourself for being smart and obviously they will might tell you that you are good because you cheat or maybe because you get help from people at home, and this will start to grow anger within you and because of the fact that you might start being introvert you will loose confidence in yourself!
This was a basic example but I am sure that there are worst things happening because of not having confidence in yourself and believe in it!
The key to be start being confident is to actually ignore everything which makes you feel bad and start focusing on the beautiful things in you. Your smile, your eyes, your nice hair, your hands, your skin, your organs, your voice etc etc... these are all things which you really must be appreciating that you have and these are the things which makes the real you, the beautiful you. It's not your friends or who ever has bullied you gave you those things, it's not who ever called you stupid or ugly or fat! Those are the things which makes you feel bad because you are afraid of having them .. so why are you wasting time focusing on what you don't have and forget what you have!? no one can ever make a replica of the real beautiful you , so if you are to destroy it you will be gone forever and can't bring it back. So you better look very very closely in that mirror in your room and notice every single part which makes the real you, which makes your eyes smile, which makes your smile shine and which makes your heart warm! these are what makes the real YOU! so you must love YOU!
Remember, what's inside you is stronger then any other comment or a lie!
07 April, 2011
Happiness
Happiness comes from the heart! If you're feeling happy then that must be a feeling which comes from the heart!
Have you ever thought what really makes you happy?
Unfortunately we might tend to forget about all the things which makes us happy and concentrate on those which makes us sad. But what really makes us happy?
I'd say everything which surrounds you can make you happy. If you stop and think and reflect about all the beautiful things which we you are surrounded by, you will surely start feeling happy. these can vary from the the most simple thing till the most huge thing. It's only a matter of how you look at them!
So I'd say next time you have a minute alone, stop and look around you, and admire every single thing you see. Focus on something and feel happy that you might have it in your life, or that you can use it, or that you can see it everyday! could be a person or an abject! as long as it make you happy cherish it with all your heart :)
Stay Happy ! ;)
Have you ever thought what really makes you happy?
Unfortunately we might tend to forget about all the things which makes us happy and concentrate on those which makes us sad. But what really makes us happy?
I'd say everything which surrounds you can make you happy. If you stop and think and reflect about all the beautiful things which we you are surrounded by, you will surely start feeling happy. these can vary from the the most simple thing till the most huge thing. It's only a matter of how you look at them!
So I'd say next time you have a minute alone, stop and look around you, and admire every single thing you see. Focus on something and feel happy that you might have it in your life, or that you can use it, or that you can see it everyday! could be a person or an abject! as long as it make you happy cherish it with all your heart :)
Stay Happy ! ;)
05 April, 2011
Believe
The word believe is so simple to say yet so hard to really believe in it!
Sometimes in life we don't even think about why we are being too hard on ourselves when we find ourselves in trouble. When we let ourselves to be carried away by difficult current, the most thing we need is to actually believe that we can find our way back to the shore. Most of us tend to continue focusing on the problems and all the bad things around us, and trying to solve everything with negative thoughts isn't really a solution!
To believe in yourself is not an easy thing to do when being surrounded with people who won't appreciate you as much as you deserve ! unfortunately these people tend to bring you down and makes you believe that you really don't mean anything. Although we might find these people in life, it doesn't mean that we should give up or should stop believing that we can make something out of our lives, but we should use these kinds of people as our weapon to find our way back up and fight for what we really believe in . When believing in something automatically we fight to achieve it, so we must do the same with ourselves, we fight for ourselves because each and everyone of you has got something special to fight for in life! no matter if it's small or big, as long as it makes you happy you must believe in it!
Believe in what is believable !
Sometimes in life we don't even think about why we are being too hard on ourselves when we find ourselves in trouble. When we let ourselves to be carried away by difficult current, the most thing we need is to actually believe that we can find our way back to the shore. Most of us tend to continue focusing on the problems and all the bad things around us, and trying to solve everything with negative thoughts isn't really a solution!
To believe in yourself is not an easy thing to do when being surrounded with people who won't appreciate you as much as you deserve ! unfortunately these people tend to bring you down and makes you believe that you really don't mean anything. Although we might find these people in life, it doesn't mean that we should give up or should stop believing that we can make something out of our lives, but we should use these kinds of people as our weapon to find our way back up and fight for what we really believe in . When believing in something automatically we fight to achieve it, so we must do the same with ourselves, we fight for ourselves because each and everyone of you has got something special to fight for in life! no matter if it's small or big, as long as it makes you happy you must believe in it!
Believe in what is believable !
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